OPPOSITES ATTRACT # yes they do

 Disclaimer: I am participating in Blogging from A-Z challenge 2022 and this is my post for O # OPPOSITES ATTRACT 

I used to think it an Overrated Notion😏

Searching for like minded people with all devotion πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡

Solely for this I made friends who were like me 🀠🀠

Hanging around with them is what I used to be. πŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒ

Enjoying the same hobbies and subject matter πŸ™‚πŸ™‚

It felt like birds of the same feather flocking together.🦜🦜 

I never realized so much I was missing πŸ™

Acceptable and precise then it was all seeming 😏


At home,  two of my sisters were like me in many aspects. πŸ™‚πŸ™‚

But with the third I was always at loggerheads 😠

She was totally my Nemesis 😀

My character's absolute ANTITHESISπŸ˜–

We absolutely never got along 😦😦

I always thought I was right and she was wrong 😏😏

She on her part also thought the sameπŸ™„πŸ™„

Always arguing for reasons so lame😱😱

Now, when I look back I realize 🀫

She actually added spice to my life .πŸ€©πŸ€©πŸ€—πŸ€—

Very recently she called me ADOPTED 🀨🀨

With a daughter like her my parents must have really felt the need to do it πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

As an adult #

I always felt Love ❀was not looking at each other,  but looking in the same direction 

In the latter case it would never reach its saturation 😍

I got married to the person thinking we had the same set of mind πŸ™‚πŸ™‚

Only later I realized he was simply one of his kind 😬

So many years into our marriage πŸ’‘ even the remotest similarity I m yet to find 😱

I can now understand this is what destiny had designed πŸ™

I remember our very first conversation πŸ˜‘

After we returned from our marriage destination πŸ’πŸ’

He had asked how I Iiked Cleanliness 😏

To which I had replied , it was next to Godliness😁


The next day πŸŒ„ he gave me a Mop and a Pan 

Expecting by evening to see things absolutely Spic and Span 

He was obviously disappointed when he returned πŸ˜‘

I said , I did like seeing neatness  but how it's to be done , I m not concerned. 😏😏

He was speechless 😬

seeing me hopeless πŸ₯΄


I realized he was immaculate and orderly 😍😍

And I was disorganized and messy πŸ™πŸ™

He was patient and at times overbearing πŸ™„

I was always in a hurry to finish things πŸ€“πŸ€“

I being impulsive, he was over cautious ⚠️ 

He was fond of eating out, and enjoying a hearty mealπŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹ 

I would rather stay at home savoring my rice and lentilπŸ˜‹

He was happy working, and investing in money making schemes πŸ’° 

I was forever lost in my regular work and day dreams 🎸 


I was always impressed🀠 but never truly inspired πŸ€“

I was happy 😊 with myself, and him I just admired 🧐


Still looking back at so many years, we did get along fine.πŸ₯³πŸ₯³

I've adopted his ways, and he has made peace with mine 😎😎


LESSON LEARNT # 

PERFECT IS NOT WHEN TWO PEOPLE ARE TOGETHER🌈🌈 

IT'S WHEN THEY ARE BOTH OPPOSITES, BUT IN THAT WAY THEY COMPLETE EACH OTHERπŸ’ž

REPERCUSSIONS #

Thankfully I didn't get what I had wanted thenπŸ™‚

Two people looking in the same direction 😐😐

Had I married someone just like me πŸ™„

One of us would've become unnecessary πŸ˜‡






 



Comments

  1. That line where u wrote u r adopted coz of ur other sister ..lolπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ gave me laughs...u neatly put how opposite mind sets may attract but with ajdustments and compromises

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  2. My dearest rival, we are stuck in a loop - Can't live with them, can't live without them. If I add the much-needed spice to your life, you take away the spice from mine and fill it with green tea or daliya (porridge)

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  3. I think 'opposites attract' is such a lovely concept. How else would we fall in love with love hate relationship based dramas!! Hahhaha, no but jokes apart - it's cute because there's so much more happening then. Be it any kind of relationship - siblings, spouses, friends - imagine the spice and variety and ideas coming in, even if it causes friction. Between people who care for each other, that is also ultimately a way of bringing people even closer! Stay blessed chotu (as your self-named nemesis calls you!)

    Here's my post for O:
    Oxford Dictionary

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