Mother # a changing phenomenon

 Happy Mother's Day , a little late realisation😑

As mothers always existed with the advent of civilization 😁

When it was never celebrated,  it was meant in every way 🥰

Now with innumerable GIFs, and messages, nothing much is left to say 😐

When we were young did we realize our Mom's affection was priceless 🤗

When we have become parents ourselves, we have discovered that it's matchless 🥰

No love can be as unconditional as hers 😇

Everything else comes with the tag "t n c apply" forever.🙄

In the world of "You scratch my and I scratch your back" 🙌

It's only with a Mom , who will love even if you don't love her back 🙃

Being kids ourselves , how many times have we lied 😔 and have been caught 😑

Although honesty is the best policy,  we had always been taught .😁

But saving our skin and still pulling up pranks was the agenda 😁

Who cared we went to heaven or hell,  was then our Funda 😇😇👍

How many times just to get our demand fulfilled we have refused to eat 😑

 Feeling really stubborn, not ready to accept defeat😣 

Trying and testing our parents through emotional blackmail😑

All those tantrums had always disappointingly failed 😁

Mom was not the one to give up easily on her child's whims and fancies 😃😃

But our kids are way smarter than what we used to be .

🤯🤯🤯

Here we are always ready to please our children 🤗

Any small issue with them and we get easily frightened 😬

Any unacceptable behavior is ascribed to their age🧐 or stress 😵

"Oh he/ she is entering the teens or tweens( pre-teens )" the excuse is practically useless 🙄

How come we never got the benefit of this "teen thing" for being unmannerly 😒😒

For us the age part was ignored 🙁, as we were expected to be always behave courteously 😌

Now everything is taken as teen behavior 🙄

For kids, this excuse has become the greatest savior 😒

# Showering for half an hour without getting clean 🤨

Oh relax , he/ she is after all a teen 🙄

I guess it's the modern parental attitude to blame 🤷 🙄 

If we don't behave like the way we ought, how can from the kids we expect the same.😬

We start our conversation with our children saying,  Please dear😒

As if we are feeling apologetic and have something to fear.😬

While our parents never believed in any such formality 😏

Just telling us what to do, made us do it, as a necessity 😇

We always felt immediately guilty after replying back to our Mother🥲

When our kids do the same,  we simply walk away , no words we utter 😑🙊

When they are later reprimanded for it and asked to explain 🤨

In their defense, they say, was trying to put my view across,  never accepting the blame 🙄 

If we ask them to study harder 💪

They shall say , stop putting undue pressure 😤 

If we ask them to mind their manners 💁‍♀️

They say , first teach the same to others 🙋🙋‍♀️

If we say tidy up your room 🤷‍♀️

Yes Mom! Once my game is over , I shall do it soon 🤷‍♂️

As present day  mothers 👩 we want to be our kids' best friend ❤ 

But also dont want to be taken for granted at every end 😕 

Today in the morning 🌄 My son came to me and said with a hug 🫂,  I won't wish you HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY 

Since you also just gave me a hug and never wished me HAPPY CHILDREN'S DAY 

SO TIT FOR TAT 😏

Before going , he said Mom you need to go for a walk as

YOU ARE GETTING FAT 😠

Thanks for reading friends ❤ 😊 😀 💕