Expressions

Disclaimer:  I am participating in  Blogging from A-Z challenge 2022  and this is my post for N # "NO" THE SUBTLE ART OF REFUSING At times it gets really difficult to say No 🤐  You may think why, really why is it so ?🤨 It's a small word, very easy to pronounce 🤨 The energy used while uttering will just be an ounce 🙃 But it gets difficult at times when I want to show I care.😬 And to the person asking  , it shall not be  fair😐 One may think 🤔 it might hurt her/ his feelings  But the very idea of saying Yes, at times, is just NOT APPEALING. 😖 There can be situations like when u are questioned How do you like the dress I have designed..? The friend is close and u don't mean to hurt🤫  it's ABSOLUTELY GREAT you assert 🙂 TO WHICH SHE SAYS ITS ALL YOURS 🙄 A GIFT WHICH HAD BEEN PENDING FOR YEARS 😏 I Want to shout Nooooo😱 But how do I do soooo 😫  SOME SITUATIONS CAN REALLY GET AWKWARD  A neighbor got hooked onto singing  Day in ...

  Disclaimer:  I am participating in  Blogging from A-Z challenge 2022  and this is my post for M # MAKE UP MY MIND,  SORRY 😞 I CAN NEVER . Taking decisions has never been MY CUP OF TEA😬 Even if I do , last minute changes there shall always be.😉 The problem with my mind is , its never made up 😐 Forever confused and always messed up 🙄 In my student days : Whether I want to graduate in Commerce or Humanities 🤔 Or Science should be chosen as others were all frivolities 😒 I loved English but also liked Maths 🤨 Biology was my favorite and so was Stats😇 Getting married :  a boutique I decided I was opening 🤩 At a point when inside a baby I was carrying. 😬 I finally had to put it all up in a garage sale🙄 My nine months nausea had got everything derailed😑 PRESENTLY : Should I invest my money in shares or do some philanthropy 🤔 Buying Property is an option too , but the second one is TAX FREE🤑 I want to travel or remain sedentary is again a que stion ...

  Disclaimer:  I am participating in  Blogging from A-Z challenge 2022  and this is my post for L # LOVE ❤ IS FOR PLEASURE AND MARRIAGE 💑 IS FOR CONVENIENCE 🌹🤝 This is what I used to think during my Miss Ranjana Jain days. Among all my friends who were into serious relationships, 75 % of them married elsewhere for varied reasons whatsoever,  sometimes the guy's family was reluctant, sometimes the girl's, either the guy or the girl got more practical,  or at times one of the moves abroad etc. Eventually, all Valentine's evenings were spent together with the clandestine dates, the pocket-hole friendly gifts, all fruitless and useless.  So whenever I was asked for my opinion I was always quick to voice it - loud and clear, that Love was for pleasure and Marriage for convenience.  And since I always considered love as being a completely frivolous and hyped activity, I never succumbed to it. The Biodata for marriage had come for a cousin of mine, bu...

Disclaimer:  I am participating in  Blogging from A-Z challenge 2022  and this is my post for K # KEY TO SELF - MAINTENANCE 💪👍 FROM THE DAY A CHILD IS BORN , IT STARTS GETTING OLD , ofcourse at a calculated pace 😌 It keeps changing, his bodily functions getting better and beauty flashes on its face .🥰 All this reaches its height and starts to decline if not taken care of 😌 The vigor and vitality of  Vitamin youth would all fall drop by drop 😒 But if  you  KEEP DOING EXERCISE YOU REMAIN HEALTHY 💪 KEEP DOING HARD WORK YOU REMAIN WEALTHY 🤑 KEEP DOING MEDITATION 🧘‍♂️ AND YOU REMAIN CALM FROM WITHIN 🙏 KEEP READING WIDELY AND EXTENSIVELY,  VERY SOON A TALE YOU SHALL BE ABLE TO SPIN 🤓 KEEP DRINKING GALLONS OF WATER , FOLLOWED BY HALF HOURLY TRIPS TO THE LOO😬 HYDRATED YOU SHALL BE AND YOUR SKIN SHALL GLOW TOO🥰 THEY SAY EVERYTHING NEEDS PRACTICE 🤹‍♀️ AND PRACTICE MAKES YOU PERFECT 🏆 BUT TO LET THAT Perfect be and stay PERFECT 😰 YOU NEED TO KEEP ...

Disclaimer:  I am participating in  Blogging from A-Z challenge 2022  and this is my post for J # Judge, not me if you don't want to be judged 😏 Getting engaged at 20 and married at 21, the People pleaser I was, always tried to avoid conflict, trying to change myself, just to fit in and be praised. Seldom does the pat on the back came but mostly ignored. What I was supposed to wear, since now I was in a different household, how I needed to behave, what time I was supposed to get up, what time I was to sleep everything pre-decided and not by me but by the Patriarchal family I was married into. I never opened up about my feelings for fear of being judged. I never wore a dresses  to avoid unpleasant situations at home or outside.  I never drove a car, even after having a license as it would have me again standing in front  for a reprimand. I couldn't go out of the house after dark, although I was going in the company of friends,  no movie nights,...

  Disclaimer:  I am participating in  Blogging from A-Z challenge 2022  and this is my post for I  My very recent mistake has been 🙄 You all, by now must have already seen 😑 That I have chosen the wrong THEME 🙁 Initially easy is what it seemed 🤔 But now redundant is what it's deemed 😐 Every single day writing about my mistakes and faults  Is like taking the happiness from my memories with a pinch of salt.🙄 I had made peace with all off-putting experiences so far 😏 Now it's like smelling again the rotten pickled Jar 🤭 Talking about my blunders and showing how idiotic I can be 😒 Feels like adding INSULT TO INJURY🤯 It shakes up my self-confidence 😒 When I feel it, it could be taken as sheer nonsense 😶 What I m definitely not looking for is PITY 😖 It's just an autobiographical account of yours truly 🤠 LESSON LEARNT #  TO pick topics that are general 🤐  Socially,  and personally ACCEPTABLE 😌 REPERCUSSIONS # I have enjoyed 😉 writin...

 H  # Hate you, No I Don't,  But I wish u were on fire 🔥 and I had water, I'd rather drink it.  Disclaimer:  I am participating in  Blogging from A-Z challenge 2022  and this is my 8th post for H  #  HATE U , NO I DON'T  It was during my final year in college. I was also enrolled in APTECH for my Diploma in software management course. I had scheduled my classes at Aptech such that, just after finishing I could go straight to my college which was only within walking distance. My computer classes used to be from 6 to 8 AM and college from 8:30. It was a perfect arrangement.  Once it was a holiday in college, so after my computer class I could straightaway head home. I thought to take the Metro to save time, reach sooner and go off to sleep. Normally I used to go by bus with my friends after college was over. But today it would be more comfortable and convenient to use the Metro, or so I felt.  I climbed down the subway to r...